To all the women who place your self worth on your external appearance…please stop.
You are not a Number
You are not a Size
You are not a Measurement
You are not Fat, Skinny, Curvy, or Chunky
What does define you is your heart, your kindness, your compassion, and your love for others. Never forget that. 💕👯
Full honesty… this past vacation I struggled big time with comparison. Seeing one of the top coaches, my mind automatically starting shifting to how I could change to be more like her. How would my life be different… If I were thinner? Prettier? Different? Taller? Blonder?
For me, it’s always been that desire to be someone else, to be better. I only say this because I know as women we all tend to do this. If I looked like her, had her life, did what she does, then things would be different.
But here’s the thing… the world only needs ONE Bonnie Engle and the only person I will only ever be is ME. And guess what?! I can still help a whole lot of ladies as me.
Comparison is the thief of joy. You are perfect just as you are and sometimes we ALL need that reminder.
Take a minute today to think about something you LOVE about you… I guarantee someone out there is wishing they were more like YOU.
For such a long time I put off coaching simply because I didn’t BELIEVE I could do it.
I didn’t have a 6 pack.
I didn’t know enough people.
I didn’t feel COMFORTABLE posting to social media.
I’m just not the type of person who was ever really SUCCESSFUL.
Then one day I realized something… every single person starts at ground ZERO. If I was going to do this, I had to start somewhere.
And no I didn’t grow a 6 pack overnight.
I didn’t meet 10,000 people in one day.
I still was a nervous wreck about posting to social media.
But instead I DECIDED that I was going to believe in myself and BELIEVE that I could be SUCCESSFUL.
I am not a special snowflake.
I am not extra talented.
I just work really hard and BELIEVE I am capable of pulling this off… so I am 😉
Wanna join me?!
How you love yourself is how you treat others to love you 💛
Just a reminder, as many transformations as you see, always remember, everyone is on a different journey.
Goals should be individual, not universal. Just because someone is stronger, faster, or thinner doesn’t mean your effort isn’t as valid.
Work on your own goals for yourself. Progress will come. ✨