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What you see vs. me…

True Story: I almost didn’t post this picture last week.
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Then I had to laugh at myself as I read some of the comments… not once did someone mention the ONE thing that was glaringly obvious to me.
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Know what it is was?! 🤔
The little extra chunk and cellulite on my legs.
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I wanted to share this to prove a point. We are in fact our own worst critics. The things you notice on yourself, pull apart, that seem sooooo obvious to you… are often times invisible to others.
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Stop being your own worst critic and start trying to see yourself through the eyes of others.💕
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Sure you may never match the “perfect” photoshopped images you see on social media, but you are YOU and that is something you should be so PROUD of. Own it. Little extra on the thighs and all. 😘

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Reality Check

Reminder… just because it looks like someone has it all together on social media doesn’t mean that’s always true. 💕

I should be in Mexico today on an all expenses paid vacation that I worked my butt off for. 🍍

Reality: I’m in Massachusetts. Trying to figure out a last minute move after a mini flare up of anxiety and depression.

I didn’t want to be the third wheel on vacay.

I was nervous to fly to Mexico alone.

I have a great job that I love. An awesome place to live, and soon a new one. And for the most part tend to have my you know what put together, but I have my obstacles too.

I’m sharing all this not for sympathy. I’m honestly quite happy with my decision, but because I never want to pretend my life is perfect.

And reality is: no one has it all together. So next time you look at that “perfect” person remember… their reality is probably very different than their “gram”. ✌️

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But I’m not a SHAKE person…

But I’m not a shake person…
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Yea neither was I. And I have to be honest I was a fraud the first year of my business because I didn’t understand the VALUE of what I was putting into my body and didn’t want to “waste” my calories on a drink. I like to EAT.
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Then I did my research… and made myself a promise. I would drink my shake daily and not worry about the calories. How much weight could I gain from 70 vitamins, minerals and superfoods from the earth. What could be so wrong about adding in probiotics, digestive enzymes, and superfoods that may prevent cancer, can potent tially decrease inflammation, and may help fight heart disease, diabetes, and obesity? What happened?!
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More energy.
Clearer skin.
Less sickness.
Weight loss.
Fewer cravings.
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Sure I’ll drink my calories 😉 Not making claims just sharing my experience. You can feel this good too. Message me. 👯📱

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Let’s Talk… Comparison

Full honesty… this past vacation I struggled big time with comparison. Seeing one of the top coaches, my mind automatically starting shifting to how I could change to be more like her. How would my life be different… If I were thinner? Prettier? Different? Taller? Blonder?
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For me, it’s always been that desire to be someone else, to be better. I only say this because I know as women we all tend to do this. If I looked like her, had her life, did what she does, then things would be different.
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But here’s the thing… the world only needs ONE Bonnie Engle and the only person I will only ever be is ME. And guess what?! I can still help a whole lot of ladies as me.
Comparison is the thief of joy. You are perfect just as you are and sometimes we ALL need that reminder.
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Take a minute today to think about something you LOVE about you… I guarantee someone out there is wishing they were more like YOU.

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